“Mad house,” my husband uttered jokingly as we were leaving
home for work today and the kids were you know, being kids; they were having shower
together, laughing, quarrelling, screaming, sliding, making mess in the toilet.
“One day our house will be empty and we will miss this
madness,” I replied.
These kids. They take over your life and one by one of them
will bid you good bye and you’ll be left with an empty nest, less daily drama
and a whole lot of free me-times. How do parents let go of their kid as early
as 13? How did my parents let go of me when I was 13? Sure Hadi can be annoying
most of the times LOL but I cannot imagine my home without him. I will
definitely yell a lot lesser LOL, and there will be peace and calmness; but how
boring will my days be? No one expecting my home cooked food, nobody to argue TV
time with, no big brother to help me out with the younger ones. And by help, I mean
dragging his foot in protest and grunting nonsense while half-heartedly doing
the things I ask him to do.
But I guess that’s what parents do, we plant and nurture
their roots, and then give them wings for them to leave their nest and soar
higher. And we wait, we wait for them to come home once in a while to rest their wings. Just like our parents. It’s
a never ending life cycle.
Damn these pregnancy hormones.
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